W will do what she wants. Time for ME and D3 !!

[leopoldstotch]

I have been thinking since BD about the WARNING signs my wife may have been giving off.

I had noticed about a year ago that she began to inhale really really deeply likea huge sigh. When I noticed it I asked her what was wrong and she said nothing.

Slowly became ever day, then multilevel times a day, then every 20 mins or so. Like something is suffocating her.

She had a panic attack a month before BD and then went to see a therapist who prescribed her zoloft A/D. The symptom didn't go away for the two months following.

Then, around the time that OM came in the picture (I didn't know at the time but now I know the timeline), the sighing stopped completely. I guess does that signal happiness? I remember telling her hey your sigh is gone! She said yes the meds are finally helping.

Haven't heard the sigh since. Until yesterday....

She got back from two days with OM. I had the house clean, fixed a few things around the house, D3 was dressed nice, I had shaved...all the stuff I have been doing for 2 months since BD.

She came in and noticed the house but didn't comment of course. Then the sigh came on maybe two or three times the first hour she was back. Then stopped.

Not sure what to make of it if anything. Anyone else notice anything like this?

Don't make anything of what she says or does it's not worth your aggravation. At some point you will think back and realize you wasted a lot of time trying to mind read her.

Now that you have been given a wake up call you can recall her signs. That is normal. I think we all get so wrapped up in the monotony of everyday life that most of us tune things out and coast on auto pilot. It isn't until we get this giant kick in the @ss that we finally wake up.