AS and labug, thanks for your replies. Thanks for reminding me to consider alternatives to what may be going on with my W. I tend to lock in on a reason for behavior without knowing what is really in W's head. Also, as AS and others have stated in other threads is to not believe what the WAS spouse says
Regarding perimenopause, maybe. I took a look at some of the symptoms and she might have a couple. She hasn't said anything about this so I'm not sure.
Regarding forgetfullness as we get older I agree that can definitely be part of it. She has exhibited forgetfullness/brain lock before.
