I believe the book specifically tells you not to give the book to your WAS or even mention it. They will think everything you are doing and all your changes are a ploy to get them back.

Not sure what the veterans think....

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017