Leo, I appreciate the advice. Yes I realize now that WAW probably will not start to re evaluate until they suffer a lose. Sandi mentioned that before, that basically at some point they have to become the LBS to yearly grasp what they are doing/done.

So we LBS have to work on ourselves to get to that point so that we can have the strength to make that move. At that point, what happens happens.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017