Don't believe anything she says and only half of what she does. She may look happy but most WAS are struggling to some degree with the decision. Try not to be upset or even think about how she is feeling or what she is thinking about. Try to be happy for her that she seems happy, that one really threw my W when I started doing that.
Good job not asking any questions on what she was doing. One thing I really started doing that I feel is starting to change our dynamic is when W talks about her day I emphasize with her but give no opinion on how to handle anything. Just listen and validate.
Sounds like she has some specific concerns with the M and the ones that jumped out to me were the attitude problems, lack of financial responsibility, and the single lifestyle. 1st and most important question I think doesn't always get asked is do you understand her complaints and take ownership of them? What are you doing to 180 these?
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
