I truly don't think he is, or when he would be able to. He's in constant communication with me and it's so different then it has been. I'm really thinking it was a test, a juvenile and needy test, but a test just the same. It's the only time he has said anything remotely like that.
Oh, OK. Just be careful. You'd be wise to have a really strong transparency plan in place as you two go forward, including at least one channel that's NOT known to your husband.