I have been keeping contact to a minimum - usually just reply to answer - so now I'm actuing weird, so he says. No, I'm acting like you are not controlling my life and if you would like to be more a part of it then you would be.
I have a girls night planned in a couple weeks and I texted last night asking him to keep D. He immediately starts into 'make sure you keep your phone number to yourself' ad 'why all night' and 'why at my parents than at the house'. Geez. I woke up to a text that says he doesn't trust me in the slightest. I didn't answer. Then this morning I get one about how I was chasing this guy, and I'm pulling away, what do I really have planned for that night that I would want him to keep D for 24 hours, and if I really have something going I should just tell him so he doesn't find out another way or see it with his won eyes.
So - let me get this straight - I can't go out with you because you don't want to be seen with me. I can't go out with my friends either because I can't be trusted. Am I supposed to sit home all the time? And to put it in perspective - I have only ever had conversations with this one person. For like a week. He talks with other girls all the time. Not so much any more but I'm pretty sure he does on places I can't see, like facebook messengers. But sometimes I just don't care about it anymore. It does no good to complain.
His facebook status last night said 'sometimes it's best to ignore all the racket, keep your head down, and just keep moving. sometimes.' Or maybe sometimes it's best to act like you like your wife, since you obviously do, and take care of your home responsibilities etc instead of living like a free loader over at your parents. Ugh.
I finished reading Dr. Dobson's Love Must Be Tough last night - it's a good read. Mostly towards infidelity, which I don't have proof of. Which brings up something else - has anyone used private investigators to see what is really going on? I really wouldn't have a way to really know otherwise. Don't think anything is going on now, but I also feel like the reason he accuses me of things so much is because of what he is doing. (or has done) Hope everyone had a good night!
