I had a 10 minute opportunity to look at his phone this mOrning and I didn't. He brought up moving out again. I said whatever you feel you need to do. He asked how I felt about it & I just said that I would like to continue to walk through this living together, but if you need to leave, you need to. He said that it is just hard when he knows I want affection & he's not there. He said I'm just trying to not cheat on you right now. That's all I can do. I said that's a by step & I'm going to give us both the space we need.
It's really great that he is going out of town for 3 days. Space will be good. I had backslid & was being needy & pursuing. I've pulled back again, letting him initiate hugs & ML.
Have a great day everyone!
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
