trying to get her back

[LJC]

Edward - I've been following your story behind the scenes (as well as banging my head against a wall!).

If you browse this site and read other peeps Sitch's, their very first post, like yours, tells us a story of heartbreak after a spouse has left. If you flick/click thru the pages users give advice and they listen till eventually at the end the LBS shows improvement in their thinking and realise what they have to do, whether it means the end result is getting the WAW back or to make themselves a better person who knows that life will go on.

Edward, unfortunately this isn't the case and no improvement has shone thru. Re-read your entire thread and absorb every message because I'd hate for you to one day say, 'Wonder what would have happened if I'd listened and practised what they were saying'?

The end result in all of this whether we like it or not is to make US as a person better, if they come back surely that's the icing on the cake!