One interesting thing came up in our therapy session. He told the MC I was texting with OM2 for "months." Yes, that's true, it was 2 months, technically that's "months." But when you hear something is going on for "months," you think 6,7,8,9 months. Not 2 months. Anyway, that's just an example of how H's word choices make things sound worse than they are.
Idk, maybe this is just the difference in time perception between men and women...of course, I am a guy, so I would agree that 2 months is indeed, "months"...
You recognize the mindset, so you know where to place your energy...I think that this is normal in the beginning for the LBS, after so long of it being the case...I know I have it, it's that the trust isn't yet rebuilt. And that's okay, it'll take some time.
Hang in there, allow things to grow at their own pace...
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm