W had a L call today and I'd be lying if I said I wasn't curious what was discussed. I'm happy to report I didn't ask a single question when I got home (I'm not usually good at keeping mouth shut when something is on my mind so I'm happy with myself). I was worried about it during the day because I know if I would have said anything it would have likely started a talk I didn't want to have. Just before walking in door I reminded myself to only do things that will bring W closer to me rather than push her away. I kept busy with kids and worked out and never really thought about it until W went to bed. I just now thought to myself "huh, that wasn't so hard" and figured I'd post it. The part that is really surprising to me is I don't really even care anymore, whatever they talked about was between them and nothing I can do about it so no need to worry. I was actually very upbeat with W and kids tonight.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
