And it could be something totally different. Try to let go of all that mindreading and just be who you want to be. You're only the victim if you decide to be.
Figure out what your boundaries are and maintain them. You don't have to be angry or vindictive or a doormat but you do need to be in control or your emotions.
This is difficult but you can do it. The first step is getting out of her mind.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
