My gut. The delays and delays until she was sure she could secure financing and partner with someone to cosign etc. I still don't get how she will afford it month to month. honestly, with objective eyes in hindsight, she did not try. So many options to fix things. And I harken back to many little things said, done and not done over the past year and a half. I am not in a position to stop the transaction without a lot of legal costs etc. She is banking on support $ i am sure and half my savings. I am still going to fight for custody. I prayed, I gave her space, DBed the best I could but maybe too late to learn about DB, I dunno. She is being ruthless and cruel. She has chosen to litigate and take a very ugly way to do this. No, I have not been perfect but I really have not been a bad person. I have always been honest in our marriage and never abusive, cruel or otherwise.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
