GTO - just catching up on your thread since I have been traveling and haven't had a chance to read or write in a while. Sounds like you are doing all the rights things. Its just takes time, a lot of time. Have you documented any baby steps. Does he still hold a lot of anger or has that subsided. Is he still coming over for dinner each night?
Me 38 H 39 M13 T18 S6 S9 Bomb Drop 11/11 Moved Out 7/12 Still have hope. No OW that I know of..