Nope, she is definitely out. She just made a legal offer to buy me out of the house through the lawyer. Have to Monday to decide. Where she is getting the money or how she will afford it is anyone's guess. I suspect her family is helping her out but she has the financing supposedly. This is a bad day. Did not see this coming. Lots of legal and finances to sort over the next week. The hate on for me is surreal. The I love yous and begging for the M through April were all fake.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
No you haven't. You chose to see the positives in your M and worked with what you had. It was your choice to engage. You had and have the power to do what YOU want. Each time you went through a challenge you learned something. Time to get that straight.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
No you are not. Grieve as long as you want and then get back up again.
Bond is right. So this is all part of her plan, it hurts, it's okay though. Let her walk the path she chooses, while you walk yours. As long as you are growing as a person, making the changes that you want, you never know, those paths may cross again.
You are not a fool, if you could have saw this coming that would mean you could see the future. If that was possible, then yes you would be a fool to have let it happen. If you stick to it you will become that man that only a fool would leave.
Me 37/W 32 S 5 D 4 ILYBNILWY 5/12 Sep 8/12 Starting to find myself 11/12 on
You cannot choose your W's path, only yours. It is going to take all the strength you didn't know you had to walk this next little bit. Look around, we will walk with you. Remember everything you have learned so far. You continue to remain steady, be true to who you lost inside of you. I guarantee you can do this
I hope so. Thanks. All of you. I am so distraught but trying to show strength. This was her ultimate plan.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
My gut. The delays and delays until she was sure she could secure financing and partner with someone to cosign etc. I still don't get how she will afford it month to month. honestly, with objective eyes in hindsight, she did not try. So many options to fix things. And I harken back to many little things said, done and not done over the past year and a half. I am not in a position to stop the transaction without a lot of legal costs etc. She is banking on support $ i am sure and half my savings. I am still going to fight for custody. I prayed, I gave her space, DBed the best I could but maybe too late to learn about DB, I dunno. She is being ruthless and cruel. She has chosen to litigate and take a very ugly way to do this. No, I have not been perfect but I really have not been a bad person. I have always been honest in our marriage and never abusive, cruel or otherwise.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
