Read 5 love languages? Daily deposits into each others love tank. When your love tank fills to a certain level, you will begin to feel the love because you are feeling loved. So both of you have to work at it because it is his effort that helps you, and your effort that helps him.
I would do old home videos and old cards you gave each other if you have any. But I might be wrong, maybe it's too early.
Better to wait for comments from people who are passes piecing.
Hang in there. It will take time.
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017