FY, definitely wait till she feels better---I hope you stay healthy!
And what kind of response do you expect (based on her current behavior?) If you feel you won't like the response, then there's no point on asking the Q, unless you want that as a lead to tell her you won't take it anymore.
So if you want to keep waiting this out, then don't ask anything yet--unless her behavior/words reflect a change of attitude. I asked my H only bc he was behaving so lovingly and affectionate, and expressed doubt many times. And yet, he still answered he wanted to go through the D. So, see my point?
Rest up tonight, and thank you for your support and help.
