Originally Posted By: nailinthecoffin

I've been trying to fight for our m now for six months, and granted I understand that may not be very long for DB, it has taken a toll on our family.

I want to move out just for my own peace of mind . I might be done with my M at this point, I don't have much fight left in me, I give!


I hear you brother. We're offering advice, but in the end you know your sitch better than we do and you know what's best for you better than we do. If your heart is telling you to go, then do it. I know you've read what we've posted and I know you've seriously considered it, so if you move out then I'm confident you did what you feel is best for your sitch after considering all options. Regardless of what you do just keep your PMA intact and hold your head high, you are the master of your own destiny, not your W. You're leaving because it's your decision, not because your W made you. I wish you the best, maybe this will get your W's attention.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57