Thanks TS, I think it was a moment of guilt and a bit of depression. Once I cleared up my confusion to his statement, and he had the opportunity to really talk about what was bothering him, we are good. I think we fall back into old habits sometimes with our communication and have to be cognizant of what we are saying, why and how. We're working on it... :-)

He comes home tomorrow and actually has an interview while he is here. So cross your fingers he gets a job offer and we can move him home even sooner.