yes it was quick from that perspective. Again what she told a mutual friend/neighbor was that she is 100% committed to the marriage and will do whatever it takes to make it work. Of course I wish those words were spoke to me.

Thx B. At this point my action plan is to continue to work on me, attend EE, attend ACOA, and not bring up the past for now. No reason to flare up bad feelings at this point.

She did tell me last night she spoke with a few people over the last few months and that their situations were pretty bad. So I don't know. Maybe a switch went off telling her life isn't that bad. Who knows but right now my old W is back and I am going to do everything in my power to keep the positive "chi" flowing