You said you knew their was at least a EA but probably a PA and still you would not have asked her to leave. I kind of feel the same way.
I felt Leo was more on the side of standing up for myself, maybe asking her to leave. Or maybe I got the wrong impression?
In his case he left, but yeah, that was the main difference between our posts. And sometimes it does make sense for the LBS to leave, maybe the WAS owned the house previously, or they live in a place the LBS can't afford, etc. Every sitch is different. But in general, we suggest the LBS hold their ground and not force the WAS out, but let the WAS decide that on their own.
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AS I read all of your posts to everyone, at night before I go to bed. i think you are doing an AWESOME job motivating people! Good job!
Many thanks!
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I did not mean to sound like I did not appreciate the advice. It is just hard the truth about the odds, sometimes.
I know where you are coming from, when my sitch started I just wanted people to tell me it would be OK and the M would be restored, that is ALL I wanted to hear! Anything else was just too painful to read! But it does get better, the things we talk about here- GAL, detachment, those are the keys to getting your self-esteem back, feeling better about yourself, healing, and truly moving to the point where you know you'll be fine whether with or without your W (but hopefully with).
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Heading to home Depot for a couple things to fix a leaky toilet, and a towel hanger that isn't secure. Part of my DIY 180s =)
Good job!
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Anyone else? I have read a lot of those threads but would like to take a look at more when I have time. Who else is on the list?
Things are looking up for W and me to join the list in the near future We're not to piecing yet, but things have really progressed rapidly this month. She's starting to verbalize what she wants our M to look like "when" we get back together. Things like cooking together, eating together, praying before meals, showing the kids an example of a perfect M, things like that. It's moving so fast that I'm still trying to wrap my mind around the developments. We haven't talked about her moving back in yet, I think if/ when that happens then we'll officially be piecing.
