"I almost want to have a bi-weekly or monthly conversation with her. Almost like open forum. Sort of like "how do you think things are going" etc.. Honestly I think every married couple should have this. Could be 30 second conversation or hours depending on what is going on."
DO NOT do this. All it does is drag out the bad feelings at this stage.
"I know you said it was drastic (and it was a quick flip) but it was almost 6 months of silent treatment from her. So not that quick."
Just over 2 weeks ago you were accusing her of flipping her phone, she was cursing you etc. Then for her to be nice? It was quick. Stop trying to justify it in your head. Remember, my W didn't talk for 2 years.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
