I almost want to have a bi-weekly or monthly conversation with her. Almost like open forum. Sort of like "how do you think things are going" etc.. Honestly I think every married couple should have this. Could be 30 second conversation or hours depending on what is going on.
Either way I am still working on me. Reading through this ACOA book.
Have a new GAL activity with S. He is really liking skiing. Home life is really really good. We are like best friends again. She makes me tea at night and just talks with me.
I know you said it was drastic (and it was a quick flip) but it was almost 6 months of silent treatment from her. So not that quick.
So that guy she went out to dinner with over the summer called her yesterday. Sort of mutual friend but not really. She told me he called. That was nice that she felt she could tell me that.
We are heading on a family vacation for kids April break. This one I am really looking forward too.
Also, going back out to eat with college buddies next week. Going to try to make this a bi monthly tradition. It is really cool sleeping in master bedroom next to wife snore free. She really likes that. That has really had a huge impact on our marriage and relationship. Sleeping in sep rooms all those years and not by choice
