I've been trying to think of what my "new life/GALs" will/are starting to look like...
1) I like the outdoors--camping w my sons & hiking. H hates both. 2) I love biking. I spin indoors at my gym in winter. Am riding in a cancer fundraiser event this summer-goal 75 miles. 3) I used to play tennis w H alot. I'd like to start playing again this Spring (casually). 4) Am not interested in a new R (unless w H) anytime soon. 5) Make a memory book of MIL (already started). 6) Want to find a meet-up group to meet new people.
GAL is about YOU, not H!! Other than that it all sounds good
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Okay, I'm wondering if there is something I need to be doing differently. There has literally been NO change in H's direction, our interactions or any movement back in my direction.
Not necessarily. I didn't see any movement at all from W until right before Christmas. I was convinced she was 100% done because I wasn't seeing anything until then. So maybe he just needs more time.