Her response was that I was a low life man for displacing the kids and it would be more expensive for them to move rather then me. She also said that if that was the case, she would file for D immediately.
LOL! You're the low life, so she's going to file for divorce to teach you a lesson. Yeah, she's got a lot of character!
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She then threatened that she has been collecting evidence that I threatened her and the kids by being emotionally unstable in the house and that I acted inappropriately in front of the kids and also in front of several of her friends.
I feel like I've been transported back to the elementary school playground. That is beyond juvenile.
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She also said that if I would have moved out last August when she asked for separation, we might be reconciling by now. But because I didn't and I had some emotional outbreaks in front of her, her friends, and our kids, it is now too late and she is beyond R and only wants a D.
Isn't that practically word-for-word what she said months ago? She needs a new script. It's all your fault, if you just would shut up and bow to her demands then everything would be perfect, blah blah blah.
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So, I feel that she has me backed into a corner and I have no other option but to move out.
Woah, wait, what?? Did you READ what you typed up there? She vents and acts like a little baby and you think you have "no other option" but to cave to her demands? Whether you reconcile or not I think you should expect to be treated with at least a modicum of respect.
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So I told her we should work out the money without a third party. Her response was that if I didn't agree to mediation, she would file for D and we would have to go through a nasty D.
More demands. I have yet to read a single negotiation point between the two of you. All I read is you offering something, her telling you no, it's her way or the highway, and you caving.
