I wonder about that too (for apparently no good reason). Its all very confusing when we try to understand it sometimes. I agree the best place to be for now is DBing. it really helps clear your head and figure YOU out.

Thinking of you GTO ((((((( )))))))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home