Ugh. I feel for you so much. These OP's put such a wrench in getting a clear picture of our sitchs. I know we have had positive changes for ourselves, and I know that we can translate them into our Rs yet, the OP reality makes it harder, in my opinion. And I know the changes we have made are real, and I know they will be with us no matter what.
As j3b always said...its a long term strategy.
love you NG (((((((((((())))))))))))
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home