W will do what she wants. Time for ME and D3 !!

[GH31]

You both have very valid points although they perhaps contradict each other somewhat. But I have had a lot of contradicting advise on here, so I guess in the end you go with your gut.

Here's an idea.

Go and read ten "sitches" of men who found themselves in your position once before and did whatever it took to fix themselves and their marriages.

Print them off, read them and make notes.

You will start to notice patterns.

Apply what you learn.

If you want to get slim, don't take advice from fat people.

I got lots of conflicting advice when I first came here but I was only interested in that which had been proven to be effective.

GH31