AnotherStander I actually agreed with your post 100%. I think it is better for W to stay home so she can see my changes. You also agreed with that strategy.

You said you knew their was at least a EA but probably a PA and still you would not have asked her to leave. I kind of feel the same way.

I felt Leo was more on the side of standing up for myself, maybe asking her to leave. Or maybe I got the wrong impression?

AS I read all of your posts to everyone, at night before I go to bed. i think you are doing an AWESOME job motivating people! Good job!

I really have a lot of respect for all of you. AS, 25years, MrBond, Advina, Leo, GH31, and a couple more i cant think of right now. When I see the massive amount of time you dedicate each and every day of your life to help us all out, it is truely a gift for all who come to this site.

I did not mean to sound like I did not appreciate the advice. It is just hard the truth about the odds, sometimes. But I respect you all for your dedication, and your knowledge of these things.

Heading to home Depot for a couple things to fix a leaky toilet, and a towel hanger that isn't secure. Part of my DIY 180s =)

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017