I've re-read your original post and I can pick similarities out and compare them to my Sitch. I got the ILYBINILWY line in Oct '12 and although it was still a shock we really wasn't getting along great. She would leave the room, goto bed, what ever to avoid contact with me, if I tried touching her in bed she would pull away and at weekends she would organise things without me. I could go into more detail but can you relate to any of this?
What your saying makes sense but, and im sure someone else has said it here, whether its a MLC or a WAW the two are pretty much the same! Get a copy of DR and absorb everything in it. This is also hard to say and I hated reading what someone posted to me but don't discount an Affair Emotional/Physical especially if you can relate to any of my symptoms.
Ref my Sitch, I'll PM you so I don't hijack the thread.
M - 37 W - 35 T - 11 M - 5.5 SD13 D10 S4 ILYBINILWY 15 Oct '12 Moved out 7 Dec 12 At present - Being the best dad i can be.
