AnotherStander it really is frustrating. I actually found this part harder to deal with than the actual divorce itself. I understand that she wants a divorce and I was initially willing to be her partner through the process, but after a while I really started to hate her for the way she was treating me.
Anyway the good thing is she is beginning to thaw out and I am beginning to like her again. At the very least we may walk away from this process as friends.