25 yes I get the paradox now. I kind of got the point when Crimson posted a response.
It is not until you fix your faults, and grow as a person, and really get to where you can move on with your life without your spouse, that they may want to reconcile.
So lets get fixing!
OK So I listed my 180s a few posts ago, Do they sound good? i have started to work on those.
I'm still looking for a good GAL activity but in the meantime I have looked after my D for 2 days now and did a great job! I got her up and ready for school every day, dropped off, Went to work, then picked her up and played, did bath, dinner, and bed time story...all without my wife's help.
feeling much more confident that I can handle the task if my wife does decide to move out.
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
