[quote=suckerpunch] I guess we can't see the inner dialogue going on inside of our spouse. There is lots of conflict going on inside of them. They are likely just as confused, if not more, than we are. We as LBS's just have to have faith that what we are doing (DBing, GAL, Detaching, Acting as if) is in fact all that we have control over. No matter what the end result is, if we do it right, we will leave this as better people, with better skills and understanding of relationships and emotions. [/suckerpunch]
Stay in this space SP, this is where you need to be. It's not easy, you have to be vigilant with your thoughts but you're getting it.
I'm happy for you.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
