Obviously what you're doing isn't working. You think being available for him whenever is the best way. It's not. You go out when YOU want to go out. The reality is that you are a mom first and foremost. He has to understand that. YOu can show off your fun side without necessarily being available. You saw what happened when he thought you were seeing someone else. Total cake eater.
When you show him that you've moved on or act as if you have, then he will start looking back. You can be enigmatic and tell him you're going out without telling him details. Or ask him to watch the kids while you go out, etc. It's not mind games. It's just not having to answer to someone who isn't even there for you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
