IMHO I don't think you're pompous. I think you're INCREDIBLY NAIVE and you're trying to think of a quick strategy to get your W back (studying attraction, etc.) when you haven't done any of the hard work to fix yourself. Period.
I would suggest you stop saying things like trying to "remind" us that this is a save your M site. We all know that and are trying to help us. DO NOT belittle our efforts.
Do the work rather than talking about it.
" My marriage, although I see now that it was less than perfect or I wouldn't be sitting here, still did not have anywhere near the disfunction of some of the people i see on this forum."
That's in YOUR eyes. I'm sure your W sees things very differently.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
