Hopper, Yes, when we sit quietly, the answers do reveal themselves and unfortunately, the information isn't always what we want to hear. I'm very sorry to read that you've discovered so much about his activities. One thing I will recommended...get yourself checked out for STDS, etc. If he's been out there doing his thing w/them, you need to be checked out for yourself and your baby.
Again, I am so sorry that you have been hit w/all of this information right now. Please take care of yourself and your little one.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
