Intact. First of get rid of that C! They are not helping your Sitch! Secondly, absorb the advice above, it's been said so many times on here, to me in my posts, and to others who are dealing with WAW's!
My W was always saying 'your not a natural dad like others' she might have even said to me that i was a bad dad (<nice) so now every week when I pick the kids up I make sure they go home with lots to talk about.
Detaching is hard but GAL helps, I joined a Gym and 3 months in I still go and the chemicals a decent work out release makes you feel great! But above all make sure anything you do is positive, leave the negative stuff behind when you close the front door. If you bump into any of her friends and family be positive and put a smile on, force it if you have to but don't be on a downer because it will filter back, everything will!
Put the kettle on, buckle up and prepare yourself for the longest roller coaster ride your ever likely to take!
M - 37 W - 35 T - 11 M - 5.5 SD13 D10 S4 ILYBINILWY 15 Oct '12 Moved out 7 Dec 12 At present - Being the best dad i can be.
