I want to get her to get her belongings out. So I would not be held responsible for throwing them out. I wanted to make sure she know what was going to happen with the sale of the house. I had a long talk with my therapist after I send that message and I feel that it was the right think to do. I really thought that could trust her and I really had hope in her but she has moved on. And I have been trying to move on but issues with the sale of the house kept bringing me back down. I no way Am I trying to punish her I was just stating the items that need to be discussed. And her failure to communicate not only with me be others trying to accomplish there jobs is not right. She is dragging third parties into our situation was is not fair to them and is kind of embrassing to me. Because then I need to answer the question, why is your W asking me this why doesn't she just ask you? My answer is I don't know. I wish she would just ask me things would be easier. Even today she accused our restate attorney of conspiring with me. Any the attorney asked me what is your w thinking. Do I love her, yes, but she is has made my life the last month terrible, all because she won't talk or even response to an email. Even tbe response she did give, she only respond to tbe one thing that she thought she could control, she neglected everything else.