Even if your decision to make her choose at the time, guided her hand then... this is now.. and she is a grown woman... she is responsible for her own actions.
And you are different person.. and you've been at this awhile. I've seen growth in you.. I haven't seen that much growth in your w's actions over the last 10 months.
NOW, The only influence you have on her.. is continuing to be the best NG ever. The loving kind woman who offered to help coordinate my fundraiser next year. That woman is worth knowing.. that woman is worth loving...
.... and maybe your wife will wake up.. maybe she won't. But you're path is still the same. Set it, walk it, and never look back.....
((( )))
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
