It is a blow, isn't it? I'm sorry. I get how you feel. Know this:
They don't mean a thing.
Your H, though he may not fully realize it, is using them.
They are using him.
This MLC discontent starts brewing long before BD, hence the OW before BD...my W had first OM before the real BD when crisis replay hit full on, sometimes that's the way it rolls.
You have more important things to worry about than him. Do as you have been, be the best you, BUT, put yourself and the kids first. You have a baby coming, H has to be a distant concern right now. His choice, his problem...NOT yours.
Hang in there!!!! T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
