Your rock! I am so happy for you! I thank you for posting this little ray of sunshine in this forum, it gives me hope(and I think I am not alone here HDer!) that things can actually get better.
Be very supportive and do a lot of "positive reinforcement" when she does something in the sexual arena, lots of affirmations, lots of love, and one thing though "no teasing" yet. It can embarrass her and that is NOT what you want, at least until you guys are out of the woods sor of speak.