You said you didn't want to put D into a counseling situation if she didn't need it. Why not let the C at her school decide that? At least it opens the door for your D to have another (professional) adult to talk to IF/WHEN she wants to. There is NO HARM in opening this door...the harm may to do nothing & have noone for her to comfortably go to talk to that isn't in the middle of it all (you/your W).
I agree to keep DBing. That's my plan too!
Hey, you like camping AND you cook???? Maybe we need to meet?!!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.