Wow TTh you have certainly been through a lot with your wife. It is beautiful that you are keeping an open mind to fixing your relationship.

I go to alanon because of the alcoholics in my life but many in my group attend because they love someone with a mental illness. I find it very helpful

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13