Mr B yes very cautious. Your thoughts are mine exactly.

She did not bring it up at all. Things are going great but I have those exact thoughts.

-was there an emotional affair she broke off?
-does she get some sort of winter blues?
-do I even dig for anything at this point?
-do I try to talk about R at all or just keep working on me

Right now I feel like just enjoying the positives and not press her on anything .
Attend EE and go from there

Would love advice from veterans. It is different from last time I moved back because my anxiety is in check