Makes great sense…. thanks! It is so hard to be calm, cool and collected as you know but patience is a virtue, right? She acts all zen and and calm and done to friends and family. Makes it clear to them she is at 'peace' with it. Then again she tells them how organized she is and she is not.
She has initiated legal action in Oct, house is for sale end of Nov. Not much action on those fronts since. Mortgage is up Feb 1, and she is not responding to getting it renewed. Regardless if it is sold, we have to renew it before Feb 1 or we are in default and will not look good to creditors...the mortgage is with the bank she is a manager at! Her fiscal responsibilities have been neglected for some time. So bizarre. This is her expertise in this area. Her credit is being affected…mine could be if I am not careful.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.