She could get an apt... there are tons of way she could be done. She could be off with an OM. Yes she treats you like crap but as Breakdown says, it's justification.
One thing my IC said about H, "he's not really done, but he doesn't know what else to do. He's acting out of hurt." I do think that H was done at times, but being "done" and really moving forward with the actions of getting a D are two different things.
I think this is what your W is doing. She's being nasty. She's not being all zen and calm and cool and done. Trick for you now is for you to be all zen and calm and cool and happy, regardless of what she is doing. Does that make sense?
Me54, H53 M 23, T 25 S20, S18 BD: April 2024 Moved out: August 2024
Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.
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