W will do what she wants. Time for ME and D3 !!

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OK Lets clear up something. If my W never comes back, my life will still go on.

I understand that everyone must prepare themselves for the worst situation, and i think naturally you do that during your first few months in the sitch. Generally during the time you feel physically ill.

Once you have grieved, you have hope that resides somewhere in you that is in a different place. I can't describe it but i think you guys know what I mean.

BUT, this is a website and accompanying book, and DB coaches that help you try to get your marriage back! It sure seems like a lot of people forget that on here!

When you hit the DivorceBusting.com website it says in huge letters at the bottom SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE. And I signed up here to try to do that. So please, I am interested in everyone's opinions and guidance, and I understand why you are telling me to be prepared for the worst.

But lets try to stick with motivational talk, and helpful analysis, and handing over experience of what works and what doesn't. We have all read enough threads to know the outcome is not predictable, but we would all like to be one of the success stories. If you don't, you shouldn't be here! You should be on a "Speeding up your divorce" site.

Sorry guys, just wanted to let everyone know my position.