I don't have any advice or wisdom. Just know you aren't the only one feeling this way tonight.
And, I'm struggling with the cat and mouse thing too. All we can do is listen to others who have been down this path. I CAN say, after watching my mother and grandmother go threw MLC's with my dad and Grandpa, they didn't do this stuff. At least not willingly at first.
My mom and grandma both were victims. My grandma even overdosed on Tylenol because she wanted my Grandpa's attention after he left with his secretary.
Playing the victim didn't seem to get them anywhere. At least here I know, the marriage may not survive, but I will.
But I hear ya loud and clear... when someone you love is in pain and hurting you at the same time it's a daily struggle to find that balance.
Hang in.
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
