Retrouvaille

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What an inspiring thread. I've just started reading your original thread and with so many pages to read it looks like I'll be spending some time reading them tonight after dinner.

I've been DB-ing for almost 3 months now and while I know he sees changes in me, we talked that he's moving out pretty soon.
I haven't yelled or cried hysterically in front of him since DB-ing and really just focusing on being a better person/wife. I've only read few of your journal posts from the beginning of your journey but they are so inspiring.

When my H and I initially talked months ago after D was dropped, he said he didn't think I could make him happy and didn't think I'd change because people are who they are. While I immediately thought he was wrong and I could change, later I thought about it hard. "Could I really change for the better?" Well after months of soul searching I can say I'm on the right track to be a better person. I don't know if he sees that but at least I see it

Patience is easier said than done! I'm rooting for you!