Not one bit. But I've signed the papers and with the stbxw's current mood and attitude, which has been completely NICE, but detached... when it comes to "us" she's still headstrong about it, that I Fear will only anger her if I decided to fight it. Plus there's not enough time for a public attorney / legal aid lawyer to prepare. Maybe it won't be so much as work as it would be for him to say "My client has an argument in this matter in which we would like a continuance" etc. . . but I don't know and though I've gotten a lawyer's name, he has yet to get back in touch with me since.
No. I don't want the divorce but I have learned, it's not going to chance our relationship. It only severs a legal bond, which I'm sure has an emotional effect but not sure, I'm not a psychologist or w/e.
I figured my best bet is to DB as best I can when she and I DO communicate and take it from there.
M: 36/W: 28 T 11yrs / M 7yrs /1x 3yo D Sept: W Cheated w/ teen, BDrop. W Beast. Hated me. Oct: 18 (M license)W Asked for D Oct: 31 (Anniverary)W Paid Lawyer Nov1st: Both moved.
